Posts tagged marriage
DIE PS3 DIE DIE DIE!
0I wish all the Playstations and televisions in the world would spontaneously combust. I’m so sick of my husband’s technology addiction. Life is so much more than sitting in front of a screen! It was 80 degrees and beautiful outside yesterday, and what did he do? Sat holed up in his Man Cave with the blinds closed for five hours, only coming out to eat or go to the bathroom. I’m so freaking tired of the games, movies, and shows!!!! I can’t go anywhere in the house without it sounding like I’m in Vietnam, and the violent games he plays for hours on end give me nightmares. I’ve put up with so much crap from him this year: living alone for two months, tolerating his douchebag friend living with us, staying home alone while he plays in one of his two bands, and generally being his maid. Is it too much to ask to share dinner together, at the same table, without a freaking TV going anywhere?!
Ugh…what do they want from me??
0okay, so I met this wonderful man, who happens to live in Africa. Its been 5months since I met him, and I was gonna go and visit him in July. this is the business – I had wonderful feelings for this man. I even was beginning to love him. but everytime someone in my family heard about me going to visit him, they told me what a stupid person I was. how I was so stupid and wacked cause only a desperate person goes to Africa to meet someone. and Im confused and what about my children and all this noise. I am a 35yr. old woman. I want to see the world, I want love and adventure. and it seems like all they want is to bring me down.
so last nite, I broke things off with him, and ever since then- my heart has been hurting. I just don’t know what to do………………………….
My husband is a JERK
0We’ve been married 30+ years and been through it all. Awhile ago he tells me he’s going on a trip, taking two weeks vacation from his job and driving 1000 miles away to visit his sister and friends in a town we lived in 21 years ago. He never once said I was welcome to come. And he announced he was taking my car (because his is too old and rickety). He borrowed a buddies car. Keep in mind the man makes 1/2 what I do and relies on me for everything. I’m his meal ticket. He was laid off for 8 months recently and now our mortgage is in danger. He wants to spend time with his sister, who is older and ailing, yes, but I know he wanted more to spend time with his drinking buddies he wanted to do all this without me. He planned it all to be a surprise for everyone, which really made him a hero for showing up out of the blue. He’s just a jerk. He’s on his trip now and I really can’t form the words to show how good I feel that he’s having a good time. Jerk jerk jerk.