Posts tagged Family

About 3yrs ago  the same time i meet my girlfriend her mom died,  it was a rough time for her and she had recently moved out on her ex leaving her without a place to live. she was staying with family, and now her mom passed away, i felt really bad for her and wasnt anything she could ask me for that i felt i could say no to.  A couple of months into our relationship she said she was having some problems with the family she was staying with, so i told her she could stay with me until she found a place to live. that never happened once she moved in, she lost her job and wow that ment she was gonna stay. This bothered because i just met this woman and like in 6 months shes living me. Anyway i survived and we continued to live together. This gets so mcuh better, later she tells me that when her mom died she gained custody off her brother who is a very low functioning mentally handicapped brother.  she said she left him with family because she wasnt settled and that this family member could no longer keep him so she would have to bring him to live with us. we have no room for another person i replied, she promised she would get a larger apartment and we would all move in there and of course share the expenses.  Ok he moved in, he yells all night he craps on himself, he is continuously touching stuff, he is up all night long slamming his bedroom door and the bathroom door and opening and closing the kitchen cabinets stealing food after eating 3 meals and in between snacks. My neighbors complained about the noise to the owner over and over again. I was asked to move out, I tell my girlfriend we have to move, shes like no we dont, im like yes we do cause im not staying where im being asked to leave. The move cost me over 6,000. my girlfriend had no money to help pay for any of the expenses,although the expense came due to her and her brother. Okay we move, we have her brother for not even 6 months. she was paying someone to watch her brother while she worked days. she got the bright idea she would apply for a shift change and work nights so she could save all that money on his care, and she did she works nights 6nights a week including weekends. so now I have become the caregiver for her brother, my weekends are limited, i have to be home be the time she has to go to work, I dont mind that she works nights im at work all day and i get home tired and dont go anywhere what bugs me is on my weekends, ITS MY TIME and i have a to be home. I tell her in advance i have plans this weekend so find someone to watch her brother and time and time again she doesnt then makes feel guilty about it and gives me all the sad looks and even though im so fucking mad i wind up changing my fucking plans to be home for her brother. i just cant take it anymore im about to fucking explode not to mention she does nothing in the house cause she is always tired and sleeping.  This whole thing is making me dislike her brother when in fact she is the one who should be disliked for her childish  and immature behavior.  her brother is just a dollar sign. she doesnt want to loose the checks the government gives her for him. She doesnt take him out she doesnt taking him to any doctors or day programs where he can be with others like him. All day he sits in his room watching tv… I’M FED UP!